tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33964752440433221382024-03-13T04:26:52.257+00:00Daphne In Awkwardland<center>Hi I'm Dee and I guess I'm just your average angsty teen with not enough friends and too much time on their hands.</center>Dee the Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645496423519035440noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396475244043322138.post-53281607597342214342011-03-12T09:55:00.004+00:002011-12-05T18:31:24.634+00:00So I'm 17.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div align="left" class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div align="left">Had a really great birthday with friends at TGI Friday's yesterday. I met a monk (wait, what?), the food was great, the waiter was a cutieee; all Scottish and nice and stuff, and it was just really, really great.<br /><br />I guess I just wanted to thank all my friends for coming and for all the lovely birthday messages, cards and presents I received, they were greatly appreciated. <br /><br />Major note to self (and tip to all you party lovers), if you want to avoid looking like a member of the Cullen family get hold of some SPF free foundation if you're going out at night when you don't need so much protection from the sun. If you're gonna be taking loads of photos with the flash on, the camera reflects off the SPF when the flash goes off causing you to look pale and ghost-like. Even worse you can end up with a VFL (<b>v</b>isible <b>f</b>oundation <b>l</b>ine) like me. :(<br /><br />Also, if you haven't been into Covent Garden at night, go. There's loads of buskers and cool people and generally good looking guys about and there's loads of cool clubs and so many restaurants and it's even just a good area to loiter. Obviously it's great in the day too, the shopping's fantastic. ;)</div><br /></div><div align="left" class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Anyway, here are just some of the best bits:</div><div align="left" class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-NAvaZXP2tC4/TYXPZ3Rkv-I/AAAAAAAAACQ/orUvP5fCkn4/s1600/007.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-NAvaZXP2tC4/TYXPZ3Rkv-I/AAAAAAAAACQ/orUvP5fCkn4/s1600/007.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-NAvaZXP2tC4/TYXPZ3Rkv-I/AAAAAAAAACQ/orUvP5fCkn4/s320/007.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-eqsGd07-qCM/TYXQ2SyfFiI/AAAAAAAAACU/qFSkrr1Fg2E/s1600/191061_1891480684162_1155855610_2241380_3920062_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-eqsGd07-qCM/TYXQ2SyfFiI/AAAAAAAAACU/qFSkrr1Fg2E/s320/191061_1891480684162_1155855610_2241380_3920062_o.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-ri_t-SFBERY/TYXQ4uSAadI/AAAAAAAAACY/wwjnctnhBnE/s1600/191231_10150111512613160_500178159_6518848_6506030_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-ri_t-SFBERY/TYXQ4uSAadI/AAAAAAAAACY/wwjnctnhBnE/s320/191231_10150111512613160_500178159_6518848_6506030_o.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-B-suOPGmQys/TYXQ52cVWVI/AAAAAAAAACc/C52lHTBheqE/s1600/191231_10150111512618160_500178159_6518849_2975532_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-B-suOPGmQys/TYXQ52cVWVI/AAAAAAAAACc/C52lHTBheqE/s320/191231_10150111512618160_500178159_6518849_2975532_o.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Utd6awsms-k/TYXQ7DRVIXI/AAAAAAAAACg/WWXXW9bxXkM/s1600/193566_1891503964744_1155855610_2241407_1830054_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Utd6awsms-k/TYXQ7DRVIXI/AAAAAAAAACg/WWXXW9bxXkM/s320/193566_1891503964744_1155855610_2241407_1830054_o.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-kUMJLXWetts/TYXRAHkju1I/AAAAAAAAACk/8Il5Fz0RajA/s1600/039.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-kUMJLXWetts/TYXRAHkju1I/AAAAAAAAACk/8Il5Fz0RajA/s320/039.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Hz-ZqcDpy2A/TYXREQsoEFI/AAAAAAAAACo/iidBmCmfpho/s1600/038.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Hz-ZqcDpy2A/TYXREQsoEFI/AAAAAAAAACo/iidBmCmfpho/s320/038.JPG" width="320" /></a></div>Dee the Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645496423519035440noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396475244043322138.post-27737072449542901022011-02-27T18:46:00.004+00:002011-12-05T18:31:24.634+00:00My day today<b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">09:00</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Wake up but say 'one more hour'.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">10:00</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Wake up but can't be fucked to get out of bed so lie there for another hour or so and think about music.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">11:30 (approx) </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I finally get up and start up my computer with the intention of starting my 1200 word essay due Tuesday.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">12:30</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Convince myself that I have a headache and lie down for a while so I sign out of all the social networking sites I spent the last hour on instead of working.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">13:36</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 'I'll wait til 2.'</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">14:04</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 'Shit.'</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">14:05</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> '2:30 it is.'</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">14:30</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Go downstairs and back on the computer to 'do work'. Watch Skins videos I've already seen.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">15:00</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Get brother to order pizza.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">15:25</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Eat pizza.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">15:45</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Read some notes on books for essay.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">15:55</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Call friend distressed about the amount of work due in.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">16:30</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Watch Previews of Alo's episode in skins on repeat and scroll all the way down to his first tweet on Twitter. Read them all.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">16:45</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Stalk the other characters Twitters. (NB: THESE ARE NOT EVEN REAL PEOPLE. NB2: I am still in my pyjamas. jus sayin.)</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">17:20</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Transfer written essay plan onto the computer.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">17:40</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Actually get books which coursework is to be written about out of bag.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">17:42</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Facebook stalk people, talk to Facebook friends about nothing</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">18:00</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Drink juice.</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">18:30</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Decide to do Physics instead. (Yes, I manage to make drinking juice last 30 minutes.)</span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">18:46</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Write this blog post about my oh so constructive day, for no one to read or care about.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I take procrastination to a whole new level.</span></span>Dee the Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645496423519035440noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396475244043322138.post-70790650420582999942011-02-26T21:18:00.008+00:002011-12-05T18:31:24.634+00:00D&G (&LMNOP)<span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Now I'm not usually one who's in the know about designer fashion, personally, I'm more of a high street/vintage kind of girl, but I must admit, D&G really caught my eye with their A/W 2011 collection. It's a fun, colourful and kooky collection focusing on...the alphabet. Paired with kitsch inspired 'fridge-magnet letter' jewellery and Chuck Taylor Converse lookalikes? Perfect.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-JkQfz856jQM/TWltDzsZe8I/AAAAAAAAABY/L7KehEVHkls/s1600/blog1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-JkQfz856jQM/TWltDzsZe8I/AAAAAAAAABY/L7KehEVHkls/s320/blog1.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-9hAeVGaAybY/TWltEy7U76I/AAAAAAAAABg/QQfOHyNMZH4/s1600/blog3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-9hAeVGaAybY/TWltEy7U76I/AAAAAAAAABg/QQfOHyNMZH4/s320/blog3.jpg" width="213" /></a><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-zfTu4b7Wyy4/TWltEQ27VQI/AAAAAAAAABc/vJ8EO28Z7vQ/s1600/blog2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; 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text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-ydWVV25wJ-k/TWltOZbbJvI/AAAAAAAAAB4/87PhUMT7lA4/s1600/blog9.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-ydWVV25wJ-k/TWltOZbbJvI/AAAAAAAAAB4/87PhUMT7lA4/s320/blog9.jpg" width="213" /></a><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-wHlf4GojpXA/TWltKk4VVFI/AAAAAAAAABs/P3i8UQfF8FE/s1600/blog6.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-wHlf4GojpXA/TWltKk4VVFI/AAAAAAAAABs/P3i8UQfF8FE/s320/blog6.jpg" width="213" /></a><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></div><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-fIIK5tjeWKM/TWltOyao00I/AAAAAAAAAB8/Xi1tDnw1VSM/s1600/blog10.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-fIIK5tjeWKM/TWltOyao00I/AAAAAAAAAB8/Xi1tDnw1VSM/s320/blog10.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span>Dee the Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645496423519035440noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3396475244043322138.post-33918559190902335952011-02-15T21:52:00.002+00:002011-12-05T18:31:24.634+00:00I don't even think my cat loves me.<span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">So you're single on Valentine's day, but heck, no </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">way</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> are you gonna let anyone know that you've been through ten boxes of Kleenex, sobbing while watching a marathon of doomed love films with Eric Carmen - All By Myself playing in the background on repeat, all while cuddling Mr Snugglypoo, that pink teddy you've had since you were about 6.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">No way.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Instead, here's 10 things you might want to try if you're feeling like the ultimate single pringle in the tube of love:</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">1)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Firstly,</span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> avoid soppy things</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> at all cost. No depressing love films, novels or songs. As comforting as they may seem believe me, they'll only make things worse. As much as you may believe he empathises with you trust me, George Michael is not on your side.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">2)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Instead, try </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">listen</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">ing </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">to empowering songs</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> (or if films are more your thing check out Made In Dagenham). Try Gloria Gaynor - I Will Survive, Cyndi Lauper - Girls Just Want To Have Fun, Pussycat Dolls - I Don't Need A Man or any other </span></span><strike><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">boy bashing</span></span></strike><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> feminist anthems you can find. Then get your hairbrush or some other household object that vaguely resembles a microphone and go for it. It's not like anyone's gonna see you; after all, you are single. No offence.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">3)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Can't bear the thought of being alone? </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Get all the girls round</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and have a girlie night in (or out!) They're all as single as you and things are always a laugh with pals. Stay in and have a movie marathon, pizza, games, makeovers and gossip or go out for a meal or a club and eat/dance away those Valentine's blues. Hey, you might meet some single guys. Jus sayin.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">4)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> If your friends are all ridiculous and 'in love', </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">go out by yourself and glare at all the</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> foolish </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">couples</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> you see pretending to be having a good time. They so would rather be in your posish. There should be lots and head shaking intense icy eyes occurring. This should ideally all be done wearing a tee-shirt with logos such as 'I hate love', 'love sucks', 'who needs love when you've got cats?' or 'love is for the weak'. Who wants to be a part of this ridiculously over-commercialised day of tomfoolery anyway? Mainstream is downstream.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">5)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Now this is a personal favourite of mine and perfect for all you pyromaniacs out there. I like to call this </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">The Bonfire of Unrequited Love</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. Basically, you make a huge bonfire of photos, letters, clothing or anything that reminds you of your ex or crush. Take great pleasure of watching it all burn. Even the shrine you spent months making in the back of your wardrobe. Try not to link everything back to them though, you do want somewhere to live and you don't want to get arrested for burning down that bench in the you used to sit on on Sunday afternoons.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">6)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Food is your new best friend so </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">eat like nobody's business</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. Chocolate cake, ice cream, BBQ ribs; whatever you be diggin', you should be eating. When has food ever let you down? </span></span><u><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">NEVER.</span></span></u><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> So go on, raid that fridge like it's your Ex's apartment. Hey, Dee don't judge.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">7) </span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Two words: </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">slob</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">out</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. Put on tracksuits, wear your hair in a messy bun, don't bother with make-up in fact, don't even bother getting up. Refuse to involve yourself in his </span></span><i><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">ridiculous</span></span></i><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> day for people who constantly need to be reassured of their worthy-ness by some pieces of paper and shrubbery. Make some kind of statement, see how long you can grow your leg hair. That's always good.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">8) Fantasize</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. So Darcy isn't </span></span><i><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">real</span></span></i><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. Real shmeal. In dreamland you have all the boyfriends you could want (not that you want one.) Imagination has no limits, anything is possible! Yes, even for you. Come on, dating Jude Law in your head is better than facing reality. You could even take this further and </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">write yourself a valentine's card/love letter</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> (</span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">a list of all the great things about you</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">, focus on the positive not the negative here </span></span><strike><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">they're not the reason you're alone or anything...</span></span></strike><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">), </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">buy yourself some chocolates, a teddy and flowers</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> for the house. If you're a real Thespian, </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">make a cardboard cut-out</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> and wine and dine it. Talk to it. Dance with it. If anyone questions you sanity, explain to them calmly that they obviously don't know a catch when they see one.</span></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">9) Drink</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">. You know how I said food was your best friend? </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Alcohol</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> is your other. It will turn you into a fun, feisty thing who knows nothing but a good time. </span></span><strike><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Or an emotional wreck.</span></span></strike><br /><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span><br /><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">10)</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> If worse comes to worse and none of these steps work you can also </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">beg your Ex/crush to love you</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> (again). You've just kissed a cardboard cut-out; the dignity and pride ship has sailed. </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Pay someone to love you</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> or even just to be your boyfriend for the night. If all fails, </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">go back to Titanic, Kleenex, Eric Carmen and Mr Snugglypoo</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">, </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">buy some cat</span></span></b><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">s</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"> (at least 3) and prepare for a life of singleness and aloneness. </span></span><b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Pray that your cats will love you</span></span></b><span style="font-family: "Arial", "Helvetica", sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">.</span></span>Dee the Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645496423519035440noreply@blogger.com2